The internet and social media have made it easy for people to talk about topics that were generally regarded as taboo only a few decades ago. Unsurprisingly, one of these topics is sex. People are now using social media to discuss and better understand what happens when people are being intimate.
And judging from the responses, it seems that one of the topics people are interested in is why most men do not moan during intercourse. Thousands of South Africans responded to the hashtag #WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex to give their take on the subject of why men are silent during sex. Below are some of the hilarious responses and explanations.
Some men said they do not moan during sex because there is no grip:
It's because we as men can't pretend,if there's no grip ayikho ke qha? #WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex pic.twitter.com/pOUbcq12rl
— ????' ??? (@Simple_Khulz) September 2, 2020
The majority of men said they are silent because they do not want to make empty promises whilst others said they do not want to say what they do not mean
We don't want to make empty promises ???♂️, imagine promising her a car kodwa wena awunayo#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex pic.twitter.com/ZAX9qd1ZMb
— bophelo_? (@lebakamothapa) September 2, 2020
Cause we have no Lie to say like babe I Love You & will never Cheat on U ever #WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex pic.twitter.com/y6ggcg75Gs
— TheZwe (@TheZwe2) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex
Sometimes we don't want to Say the L word pic.twitter.com/d67SyJAQyr— Kay-Moses???? (@KayMoses_) September 2, 2020
Some men said there has to be a difference between the man and the woman
I'm following everyone who likes and Rt this now #WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex honestly we can sing together same time but we cannot speak together Same time ?? if u know u know!! pic.twitter.com/wkFlbwWAar
— khanyisile Jamani ??❤️✌️ (@khanyisilejaman) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex first, I'm much more interested in the sound that women makes,I love how she sounds and move,when I play under.
Next I enjoy looking in her eyes, watching her facial expression and when she grabb the sheets.
For me that's the most intimate things pic.twitter.com/MANONSku12— Mothusi Ndlovu (@ndlovu_mothusi) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex it's because they're scared of giving you the pin to their bank card by mistake ? pic.twitter.com/ObsHgWiHTc
— Mrs kylian Mbappé ?? (@NtombiChauke_) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex it sounds silly when we go ah ah oh baby ay no we busy singing in our heads defela pic.twitter.com/JFN0n2c0g0
— Ivan (@4evafreshIvan) September 2, 2020
A section of men on Twitter said it is “table manners
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex
We don't talk while eating ? pic.twitter.com/T5CVm7KXUU— Aobakwe tumelo modisane (@TumeloAobakwe) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex we have to consentrate to the mission we don't know is our last or wat pic.twitter.com/BUXnAltv9M
— Obed mashishi (@Obedmashishi7) September 2, 2020
Men said it makes them last longer during sex and that the end result is what matters
Talking gets us too excited because some women are a huge turn on just by moaning. In the end that could result in early ejaculation. Silence keeps us calm and that prolongs the sex #WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex pic.twitter.com/dy4gPEuvHl
— kenneth mainganye (@KMMainganye) September 2, 2020
Some of the women on Twitter advised men to moan during sex saying it is a turn-on:
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex Life is fun when you break the rules sometimes,so stop saying that nonsense about table manners,make the noise because it demonstrates how much you are into it and after all you doesn’t want to be wanted during tlof tlof ? pic.twitter.com/kMAKZCxKzC
— Mitchelle Karoro (@mitchellekaroro) September 2, 2020
Others said they used to moan but past experience made them stop doing so
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex it's because we no longer trust these ladies. You'll moarn like a cow kant She's recording you. pic.twitter.com/iZfFR0fO7N
— #Blacklivesmatter (@Kay_mzee) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex I tried Moaning one night and She Stopped every noise she was making, I wondered ukuthi what's Wrong?? Kanti no Vele Only One Must Moan or else it's a Funeral pic.twitter.com/AVsdMXbpBD
— GOD'S ONLY SON??️ (@MiickeyGee_Sa) September 2, 2020
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex it's because we no longer trust these ladies. You'll moarn like a cow kant She's recording you. pic.twitter.com/iZfFR0fO7N
— #Blacklivesmatter (@Kay_mzee) September 2, 2020
A section of women said that a man can moan depending on his woman’s sexual prowess
#WhyMenAreSilentDuringSex men always groan if he doesn't you not good pic.twitter.com/8O9jfm2N4C
— LamzaGurl??? (@puffyspacelam) September 2, 2020
